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Lowering The Gradients Considering The Persona Of The Girl
When we are referring to subjects like "relating to women", or "how to relate to women" or "Can you relate to women?", I often get asked regarding the best way to begin getting physical with a girl that you have known as a friend for some time.
Getting physical is something which usually occurs naturally between a guy and a girl over a three month period unless of course one or both of them is really uncomfortable on disinterested.
When a man is uncomfortable with approaching a girl for a physical relationship, the main thing which a man could do to handle that is discover ways to observe and use gradients.
Exactly what are gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder which you climb to get to the top. A few guys may try to head to the top of the ladder without ascending any of the steps. And that makes the girl uncomfortable and also the guy.
A guy who is not comfortable in this area ought to learn both how to recognize gradients when women make use of them and how to make use of gradients on women.
Not all women will start at the same gradient. A few women will begin with a kiss after a first date, and move up steadily or rapidly from there - from kissing, to making out, to petting, to heavy petting and ultimately to sexual relations. If a man tries to leap to the "sexual relations" stage without going through the other gradients, he may just lose the girl. On the other hand, you may lose a girl because you are moving up the gradients too slowly.
Now other girls won't even be up to the gradient of giving you a goodnight kiss until the seventh date. Gradients for her could be: getting to know you, talking about sexual subjects indirectly (for example commiserating regarding an ex-boyfriend), accidental touch (bumping into you while you walk), purposeful little touches to your arm or leg, holding onto your arm while you walk, holding your hand, and a goodnight kiss.
If you are uncomfortable with this area and wish to get physical with a girl, flirt with her, romance her, observe where she is on the gradients of sexual contact, then take her up the gradients gently. So long as you don't skip way too many gradients, if she is interested, she will move up the gradients quickly or gradually depending on her personality.
If she is not interested, she probably won't move up. Try lowering the gradient and if she still doesn't budge, try speaking about it. Ask her if she is interested in a relationship with you or if she only wants to be good friends.
Also remember that most girls won't go out on a "date" with you unless they are already vaguely fine with the concept of getting physical with you. Thus you might want to make clear if you are dating or just "chilling out."
Lowering The Gradients Considering The Persona Of The Girl
Getting physical is something that usually occurs naturally between a man and a woman over a three month period unless one or both of them is extremely uncomfortable on disinterested.
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