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Get Back Your Ex Just By Being Less Reachable And Even More Of A Challenge For Her
You were a challenge for her. You had a high appeal and she was irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I am preparing to make a wild guess here, however is it that as time went on, you grew to be less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that right now, you might be zero challenge for her? And that she realizes if she wanted to, at any moment she could easily get you back again and twisted around her little finger just by saying the word?
I'm going to be a bit crude here, but as you know, to develop into a challenge once more you have to show to your ex girlfriend that her sexuality has no control over you any more. Think about what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And after that consider exactly what it is like when you keep doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You happen to be indicating to the woman that you're a low-value guy without any other dating choices.
Your lady is not going to respect you again until you refuse her influence over you. Fortunately you're doing that now by not personally corresponding with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Be sure to stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Be careful not to be "friends" with her, as that rewards your ex with the continued validation of power over you while supplying her a comfortable reason to stay split up. (Your ex reasons that she's letting you down easy this way, assuaging any guilt she may experience.)
Then again, always keep her locked in with the help of your things. Most likely a lot of your belongings are at her place, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She could ask a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you would like everything returned.
The best answer to this should be "No, not yet. The reason is because her possessing your things (and you possessing hers) is still locking the two of you in and guaranteeing future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.
For the up coming 3 weeks, you need to totally recognize -- and embrace -- the idea that you are an independent person now. Take what happened with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You have a golden opportunity to transform your life which will finally allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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